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Actually, that's not true about animals. But I'm glad you brought it up, because these are some of my favorite kinds of questions.

We can find groups of animals engaging in almost any kind of behavior we find human beings engaging in.

When it comes to oral sex -- be that with a partner or done by and to the self -- apparently it's a practice which has been observed among goats, chimpanzees (including bonobos, a species in which homosexual and bisexual behavior has also commonly been observed, and a species who also shares around 98% of our own genetic makeup), a few different types of monkeys, hyenas and sheep, to name a few. People often have the idea that any species other than human beings only engages in sex for the purposes of reproduction, but zoologists know that to be patently false: just like people, many species of animals also engage in sex for pleasure, comfort and/or social bonding. If you're anywhere near New York, the Museum of Sex even has a current exhibit called "The Sex Lives of Animals" all about this topic and this common misunderstanding.

The term "natural" is often a slippery one, especially if you're suggesting that something is only natural if it isn't learned or coached by someone else. For instance, we can safely say language and other forms of communication are natural -- that the instinct to communicate is natural -- and that the development of languages has certainly been organic, but language and communication are also learned behaviors. But if, by natural, you mean that a species has the inclination to do something pretty intuitively, then yes, we can pretty safely presume that oral sex is natural in that way. After all, someone had to think of it or discover it first at some point: it's not like a huge computer screen fell from the sky thousands of years ago with an image of oral sex. For most of human history, as far as we can tell, people have used their genitals, hands and mouths to explore sexual pleasure and the people they are close to.

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Most woman appreciate oral sex, but sometimes guys find it hard work to make a woman climax this way. The worst thing a bloke can do is to stop as a woman is approaching orgasm. All this will do is prolong the process. Here’s a nifty trick if you are beginning to feel tongue strain.

Curl your tongue up against the outside of your upper lip. Keep the exposed backside of your tongue against her clitoris. Although you are not be doing anything with your tongue, the soft, wet sensation hasn’t been suddenly removed, disrupting the sensation of oral sex. You can press down on the clitoris with the back of your tongue creating pleasurable pressure or use your fingers to continue stimulating her.

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What are the chances of getting an STD from performing oral sex without a condom if they are both virgins?

Neither ever had any form of sex. Is there any change of getting any kind of STD or STI from performing oral sex to your partner without him/her wearing a condom? Given that they are both virgins.

The chance on a percentage basis is exactly: ZERO chance


What are the changes of getting herpes during oral sex if there's no breakouts?

I found out that my boyfriend's ex has herpes. My boyfriend doesn't know if he got infected with it too or not. I did not have sex with him but I did give him oral. He doesn't have any symptoms or outbreaks. What are the chances I will get infected??

Thanks in advance for your answers..

Your boyfriend could do with getting tested for herpes, since it is possible to catch it and have no symptoms.

If you only performed oral sex, then you are at no risk of getting genital herpes, but you might be at risk of catching oral herpes (cold sores).

Usually, symptoms develop with a week of contact, and are pretty unmistakable. However, since he had no outbreak, the risk is low.

No study has been done on the risk of passing herpes from genitals to mouth, but there are statistics on the risk of spreading genital herpes, if your boyfriend did turn out to have it.

Based on having protected sex a couple of times a week, and avoiding contact during outbreaks, your risk of catching herpes per YEAR - per 100 encounters not per encounter - would be about 7%. If you chose not to use condoms that would increase to 1 in 10 per year.

I think for peace of mind for both of you he needs to get a herpes blood test.


How to bring home the message to your girlfriend that you don't want oral sex?

If you have sex with a girl / girlfriend and you don't know if she has any STD's. Imagine: It comes to sex and she shows you that she want oral sex. What do you do/say to avoid that without hurting her feelings and to continue the cheerful atmosphere?

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